Pioneering in a Day

It really is a privilege to work with so many people who are focused on starting new things!

My wife and I do a lot of ministering here in Idaho through the School Of Apostolic Pioneering. We bring together people who are looking to start a new works in the mission, bring together really cool people who have already pioneered new things to teach, and then pull it all together in a three-month school where everyone (students, staff, and speakers) can learn from each other.

Our next school will be this coming September, by the way.

Hopefully, by the end of three months, a team is ready to pioneer.

Though, that isn’t always the case.

The process that a person walks through in order to pioneer a new ministry is a long one. Most of it is wrapped up in preparing a person’s character. More time is spent on learning new skills that will be needed once the pioneering starts.

Once a person’s character and skills are in order you start to see healthy teams form around a vision of what God wants to do.

I am not sure how long that process is for most people, but I am certainly in the “character and skills” part of that process. It certainly isn’t a bad place to be, it is simply an honest one. This part of the process admits that I need more experience before I go further.

Gaining Experience

Once in a while gaining that experience is a lot of fun!

The other day was a good example of what I’m talking about.

It all started as I drove out early on October 31st, I was headed out to a spot in the mountains to sit down and wait for deer. It was the last day of deer hunting season and, since I was still going out, I still didn’t have a deer. It was dark and the sun hadn’t risen yet, though, as I looked out into the eastern sky I did see a very beautiful crescent moon. It was very bright and you could somehow see the rest of the moon too, though it was very faded.

For a moment time slowed and I could feel God’s stirring inside of me.

It is so difficult to describe God’s voice. Hundreds of emotions, thoughts, and memories were inside of me, though, God’s voice was much clearer than all of them, contrasting them all.

From childhood I was told October 31st was a bad day. It was Halloween, a devils holiday. It was a dark day. It was a day to have your own parties away from everything and everyone else.

That all said; I could feel that God wanted to do something on this day. It had plenty to do with prayer and it had to do with families.

More about what it would look like and the courage go through with it would only come later, but the seed had been planted. I could tell that there was something God wanted to do and He had already brought me into it. This isn’t to say that God forces people to do things, but rather that God knows where we are at, where He is taking us, and what we need to learn along the way.

God is very willing to bring us into the things that He knows we are ready for, though, the primary measure of that is our obedience. Will we do what He asks?

Today, that was a resounding (and sometimes wavering) yes.

As I drove back from a lot of thinking while I was in the mountains, without a deer, I might add, I heard a song on the radio that came at just the right time. “Fall, Goliath, Fall,” was the name of the song. If you enjoy the rock music that Christian bands sometimes make I recommend listening to it. If not, then just know that it spoke to my heart at the moment and I was encouraged.

Immediately after I got back into town I ran into another friend who was also out hunting that morning. He told me about a great spot he ran into for deer. I knew in my head that if I headed out to that same spot tonight I may get a chance to take a deer… and I knew in my heart that God had told me to do something very different with my evening.

No, I would not head out to hunt deer. I was going to be in town praying for families.

That is what obedience sounds like.

Rarely is obedience loud, showy, or troublesome, though, sometimes it may. Today it was a quiet resolution in my heart that there was something God had told me to do.

Previous Preparation

After that morning it was all a rush.

The morning’s vision had to be communicated, team members had to be given a purpose, emails sent, signs made, money spent, hot chocolate to be made and served, etc…

Step one was telling my wife about it; aside from sharing your plans, hopes, and dreams with your spouse (which is sort of in those vows and a foundation of marriage) it is very important to share your vision with others who can hold you accountable to it. I think that’s important with any idea, but even more so when you are dealing with something God gives you.

Give permission to others you trust to hold you accountable and move in the confidence that the vision is God’s and He will be faithful to see it through!

From that point on I noticed that a lot of what I was doing had been built up from previous tasks in the mission.

The basic goal was simple enough; pray for families at the parking lot of the local grocery store where everyone would be handing out candy for Halloween (which is called “trunk or treat” in Cascade). We could set up our own spot with hot chocolate and cookies, make a sign advertising free prayer, and after that see what would come of the evening.

In order for that to happen we had several things to get in order.

In, like, three hours.

The biggest need was people… given time was short I went for a walk and invited everyone I found. At the end of my walk there were two people who could help serve hot chocolate and pray. Not everyone I had expected to come was able to come. Yet, what was interesting was that, of the five people helping with the prayer stand I was the only American.

That was a benefit to us since it showed off our ministry’s diversity and made us a little more interesting.

The second biggest item on task was how to supply our stand with hot water.

Rather early on I scrapped the idea of serving fresh hot chocolate right out of our thermoses. We had enough space in those thermoses for a gallon of liquids. Serving straight hot chocolate would have been really cool, but way too time consuming. By only refilling hot water we were able to make each cup individually and only make the runs as long as it took to boil new water.

With two of us making chocolate it also gave us a happy medium of time in which we could build relationships and offer prayer.

The other bit of logistics was one of resources.

We checked our own finances to see if we could personally cover the costs of the prayer stand supplies and we could. We were also able to supply the table that we served everything on and our Jeep to get everything to the parking lot.

After all the work… ministry!

So right!

Believe it or not in the middle of a good heart to do ministry you will often get swamped by all of the extra stuff around it. The extra stuff isn’t bad, of course; it is simply there and needs to be addressed at the appropriate time and way.

Eventually all of us were over at the grocery store parking lot with all of the stuff we needed (with a couple extra runs for spoons and sign making materials). The first several kids showed up. They wanted something warm since they were waiting there before everyone got there. One of boys said that we could pray for his grades in school.

After that several other families came and took hot chocolate. Some of them said we could pray for them and others chose not to be prayed for. Most of the families wanted prayer for their families; sometimes through God’s protection or God’s provision.

One of the older men said that he would like prayer for his sanity, as he laughed. He said that he was taking care of his three grandsons on his own. We prayed for him right there while we gave them all hot chocolate and cookies. We thanked God for giving his grandsons someone to look up to and prayed that he would have both the sanity and strength to bring them up well.

It was a great night of ministry!

In Conclusion

In the SOAP these are some of the questions that we try to encourage when students are working through their pioneering projects.

-What is the vision that God has given you?

-How will you communicate the vision to other interested and available people?

-What needs to be done logistically for the vision to be accomplished?

-What will the results be when the ministry is finished?

At times we have people and teams who are very ready to start pioneering, sometimes we have people who have some ways to go before they get to start pioneering (like me). In any case we hope that we can bring our students closer to completing the goal that God has given them.

For the last several years I have been on the learning end of many experiences like these. As I’ve walked through them God has continually brought me closer to seeing the vision that He’s put on my heart become a reality.

Though, this is what it could look like in a day.

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

Weekly Update: October 29th, 2013

Well, ok, this is more of an end of October update…

For the last couple of weeks some friends and I have been cutting, hauling, and splitting firewood for our Bible School for the Nations this winter. Just this month alone we’ve been able to gather a little more than nine cords of wood.

According to a couple of websites I found, nine cords should equal 1,152 cubic feet of stacked wood. Most of what we cut up was dry white pine which should add up to around 19,800lbs; give or take some for the black walnut and the red-fir tree that we were given.

All of the wood cutting culminated in a wood splitting and stacking party we held last Saturday. I think we had over twenty-five people, four wood splitting machines, and a couple extra chain saws cut up the last long pieces of wood we hauled down. Now our community building, caboose, and two Mongolian yurts should be nice, warm, and ready for the BSN this winter!

This Bible School for the Nations will be running from January 14th through June 20th, 2014.

Specifically, this is a school that walks you through the Bible chronologically and teaches you how to share the Bible’s stories and principles with others. After the school is finished there will be several outreaches where students will be able to practice what they’ve learned. Outreaches to Mongolia, India, and a stateside outreach are all on the table!

If you are interested, click any of the links to find out more about Bible School for the Nations!

Also, while I was working on the wood stacking, my wife was able to cook up enough food to feed everyone there! That brings us up to 35 meals of hospitality that we’ve given to others inside and outside of our mission this month!

Thanks for all of your support!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

Weekly Update: February 22nd, 2013

Weekly Update: Friday 2/22/2013

Hello again everyone,

Well, if anyone has been following these updates since I left for South Asia last December, that sandwich I ate at the airport in Helsinki was as amazing as it looked. You can probably find them in the big nice looking place to eat about half way through the international terminal, if you’re transiting through the air port in Helsinki, of course.

If you’re interested in all the happenings of what my 9 weeks in South Asia looked like, hang on, I’ll be writing that up in due time.

For now, our family Is getting settled into our nice little apartment here in Cascade, Idaho. It is a very comfortable cold outside and a decently comfortable warm inside. The air is much dryer than either the Netherlands or South Asia, which I am very thankful for; dry cold air helps my health to no small degree. We still have a couple of bags to unpack, some furniture to rearrange and replace, still a little bit more cleaning to do, and with that we should be all settled in.

It has been really exciting to see many of our old friends again! The winter in Idaho isn’t always the easiest time for finding our friends in YWAM. The vast majority are either in Asia or back with family raising support. Still, we’ve been able to visit four out of the five families that are still around.

Within the next couple days we’ll also be ready to get started on the School Of Apostolic Pioneering that will be running from March 10th though May 31st. We are going to have a great line up of speakers, students, and staff (which of course includes us)!

If you know anyone who really wants to start a new ministry or YWAM location, please, let them know about the SOAP!

Thanks for partnering with our family!

Other Updates:

– Our son is an excellent traveler! After a slightly troubled night of sleep in Amsterdam, He managed to sleep half of the time on our flight from Amsterdam to Chicago and lounge around for the rest! From the look on his face it seemed that he found it the lamest thing ever done, though, he wasn’t cranky bout it at all!

After the first flight, he played around in Chicago O’Hare airport for another eight hours; following that, slept through the next flight, the entire night in Boise, and arrived in Cascade without any jet lag at all!

– Last Saturday I was able to talk with my friend in Enschede about the prayer meeting that we had started. It was a fun time, but we won’t be able to continue it. I was a little sad about that, but when I prayed about it I felt that God was saying that seeds were planted in Enschede for another prayer meeting and that the prayers we have prayed for the city will be effective.

Thanks for praying for us!

Scripture:

Since coming to Cascade I have been feeling the need to read the Bible and receive what I need from God through it. It isn’t that unusual, of course, many times after I travel I get off track with reading my Bible and haveing my quiet times with God.

This time, though, the need has been much greater.

After being gone for so long and just returning from my time in South Asia it is easy for me to become withdrawn. I suppose you could say I am a bit culture shocked.

Yesterday, I asked God if there was a book in the Bible that He would like to start revealing Himself to me through and help me through what I was dealing with. It felt like He wanted to go through Psalms with me again and to start with the first psalm.

It was a very special time with God!

The first psalm is about where you set your mind and what you do; do you put your trust in ungodly things? Do you walk in the way of sin? Do you sit around in scornfulness? As I read it I started to see how selfish I was for not looking beyond myself – in a way, scornfulness. It says that the person who is blessed is the person who sets his mind on the law of God. Jesus Himself says that the greatest commands of the law is to love God and to love others.

It helped me to start my day with a new perspective and new confidence.

You all should try it out too!

 

Praise & Prayer Report:

– Praise God for our time in the Netherlands!

– Praise God for my wife’s visa!

– Please pray for our family’s finances and continued support!

– Please pray that our family would adjust well for life and ministry in the United States!

Thanks for all your prayers!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

TAK Article: Living

TAK Article: Living

It is good to be back in the Netherlands again!

There have been many good things that have happened to us in the last two months, though, I promise I will not share all about them right now. Today, on Valentine’s day, my wife and I are celebrating our three-year relationship anniversary! As of today my wife and I will have been in a relationship for three years!

While the last two months may be quite outstanding with things to share the last three years have been even greater!

During these three years we’ve been able to learn how to live out our lives together in a way that brings glory to God and shares His love with those around us. After all, that is what we do.

Love God and Love Others

What do the greatest commands of the law mean to you?

When a man asked Jesus what was the greatest command was in the entire law (Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, and Deuteronomy of the Bible) He replied that it was to love God through everything that we aspire to do, everything that we think about, everything that we are, and everything that we actually do – as well as showing love to our neighbors as we would wish to be loved.

What do these commands mean to you? Are they on your mind? Do you think about them before you act?

As followers of Jesus Christ we are all called to expand His kingdom. There are no safe zones in our hearts where we may hide from God or off-limit places in the world where His kingdom and His law (the greatest commandments of the law) will not go.

How do we wish to do that? Where do we want to go?

It is far too easy for us to become entangled in cares of this life that do not matter; also, if they are cares that do matter, we spend too much time worrying about them. Everything that we need we can trust God to give us.

I want to see this happen through discipleship.

Over the next while my wife and I will be settling down in Cascade, Idaho. We finally have our visa, which God has made possible in perfect timing, and we can now move back into our apartment. That said, I’m no longer only looking forward to a place to settle down anymore. I don’t care for it and I pray that my heart would not grow overly fond of any comfortable apartment. My heart is fond of Jesus Christ and I wish to turn as many hearts to Him as possible!

Cascade is a good place to do this, I know the language of everybody there for a change and I have a place to live where I can invite people over for dinner with my family. Yes, that may not seem like much, but I am a follower Jesus Christ – He will provide me with anything else I need.

I want to talk with people, I want to encourage friends, I want to meet in groups, I want to discuss the Bible and Jesus’ life, I want to gather around food, etc…

Throughout our history these are the things that God has used to change people from who they were to who God desires them to be – to sum it up, this is living out discipleship with Jesus and others.

We need to realize that the greatest medium of God’s grace is our lives.

Every aspect of our lives is another way in which God can reach somebody who does not know Him yet! Further than that, every aspect of our lives is another way we can encourage each other to love God even more!

Valentine’s Day

Today, many people are celebrating the emotion or feeling of love – I admit that I know very little about this specific holiday, but for my wife and I it reminds us of the day that we began our relationship. It was a very special day for us.

We committed ourselves to love each other and seek out marriage together.

Three years later we are married and have a beautiful little son that is walking around and threatening to tear apart the entire house!

That process has taken a lot of God’s grace and committed love from both of us as well. It is the same way when we consider our relationship with God – He will give us the grace that we need to become the son or daughter that He desires us to be and we need to commit ourselves to loving Him. We do this with our entire lives.

I pray that each of us would reach out to others with our entire lives as well!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

TAK Article: God is a good communicator!

TAK Article: God is a good communicator!

A couple of days ago I was up late at night and I just couldn’t fall asleep. My mind was wandering all over the place.

Well, as it wandered around I found myself thinking about church and then how important it is for us to hear God’s voice – both privately and together with others. I realize that hearing God’s voice may sound odd at first, as it was for me, but it has become the most important practice in my life for  completely following Jesus.

I hope that this article will help you do that too!

Hearing God’s Voice in Nature

It is incredible to realize what God has done in order to speak with us. That’s the heart of what I say when I talk about God speaking to us through nature.

Rod Wilson, a teacher for my Discipleship Training School, quoted this to us during his week on God’s character and spiritual warfare (the verse is from Mathew 6:28-29).

‘ “Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They do not toil or spin. And yet I say unto you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.” The Greek word to “consider” means to diligently study – Jesus commands His disciples to study nature!’

Rod continued to teach us a lot about hearing God’s voice and other challenging topics for which I am much indebted to him for.

One of the stories he used to describe this was from when his family was serving in New Zealand.

They were in a tough financial spot and were trusting God for provision. After praying as a family he walked outside and saw a seagull fly overhead with a piece of bread in his mouth. Right then, Rod went back into the house and shared what God had told him when he saw the seagull. God had told Rod that He was their provider just like the seagull’s.

And then, in a short time, God came through just like He said He would!

Likewise, there was a time when my friends and I were camping in the White Cloud mountains of Idaho. It was just a few hours before we would leave and I really wanted to take some pictures of the rock pika that lived nearby our camp.

As I watched them scurry over and under the rocks I noticed that they always had one or two pika standing guard. They would also whistle to each other to communicate danger, when one would stop standing guard, or just to let everyone else know that it was safe. It was interesting to me for some odd reason, though, I quickly realized why.

I had been trying to understand how it is that God can find pleasure in what we do. Not just the “holy” things, but in everyday things and the things that really get us excited.

That’s when it started to make sense!

God has given each of us a unique identity and He enjoys seeing us walk out that very identity! The rock pika that I watched were doing just that – being rock pika!

By living out the identity that God has given us we are worshiping God!

About half a year later, I was able to share that same principle with a youth group that was serving the Nez Perce community in Lapwai, Idaho. Nobody else could have done the things that God had given them to do there because God had created them for this time and this purpose.

He has given the same honor of a uniquely created identity to each of us too!

The Psalms of the bible have a lot more to say about hearing God’s voice through nature as well. King David describes in Psalm 19 that “the heavens declare the glory of God” and in Psalm 97 that “the heavens declare His righteousness.”

Psalm 104 is another excellent example of nature reflecting to us the greatness of who God is. Have you, like King David, ever looked at creation and been amazed at the one who created it all?

God’s Voice is Effective

The very first time I came across the idea of hearing God’s voice was at a winter retreat with my youth group at church. A lot of my friends were there, especially, one friend that came back from a DTS who would teach about this very topic.

It sounded a little odd at first, but I figured that I should at least listen to her and try.

I don’t remember whether it worked right then or not, but it certainly did later that night. As I would be reading through my Bible I would run into a question and then, quite innocently, ask God a yes or no question about it. He actually answered! I didn’t hear it with my ears, so to say, but I could feel it inside of me. I remember later holding out my hands and asking God to press down the “yes hand” or the “no hand” – it still works, but I have learned since then that God can communicate in even better ways than that!

At the end of the week we had an altar call of sorts; our Youth Pastor laid down a small wooden cross on the floor and gave us some nails. He told us to nail down our commitment to Jesus. And asked us, is our faith only tacked in, nailed half way, or driven in all the way?

I really wanted to nail down my faith all the way! However, I thought in that moment, “Maybe I should try to ask God first?”

Firmly in my heart I felt God say one word – “paintball.”

My heart sank!

No, what? How could God mention that? There’s nothing wrong with paintball! I thought that my commitment to God was sure, completely given to God, but with one word God pointed out something in my heart that I was not willing to give to Him.

I had given paintball a place in my heart (or rather the pride it created in me) and placed it above God’s place in my heart.

That day, I thought that I had placed God above paintball in my heart, but that wasn’t the case. I only did so long enough to nail my nail into the cross. I was too prideful to admit where my heart was at in that moment because I wanted to show myself very committed to God in front of my friends.

For the next several months my life was very empty because I felt too ashamed to ask God for forgiveness and was too afraid of what others would think of me if I gave up paintball claiming God told me to.

Fast forwarding to my DTS, which was later that year, on the first evening of lectures, we were doing an exercise on hearing God’s voice and, again, I was going along with it because I didn’t want to look like an unspiritual person. My motivations were out of fear  for my own pride, not out of love for Jesus.

We were supposed to draw whatever picture came to our mind.

The first thing I saw was a merry-go-round, ‘What is this? God wants me to draw a merry-go-round?’ It didn’t seem very spiritual to me, but I did it.

Next, God gave me a picture of a slide. ‘A slide? What does a slide have to do with anything?’ I tried to go ahead and draw a slide.

Lastly, God gave me a picture of the last 4-H fair I had been a part of. ‘What? Why would God want me to draw this!’ I dropped, maybe more of threw,  the pencil onto the table.

At that moment God gave me two Bible verses, fast, completely clear, I could see them written in red in my mind. One, I believe, was Psalm 41:9, the other one I am not sure about, but it’s message was the same. Our teacher had already said that if we get a Bible verse we should read it, so I did. Psalm 41:9 says this:

“Yea, mine own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, which did eat of my bread,

hath lifted up his heel against me.”

God came and told me explicitly, in a way that I could not deny that it was Him, that I had been the one betraying him this entire time. Nothing had ever hit me so hard before; I placed my Bible back on the table and sat silently until class was over.

That night God showed me how to repent of betraying Him and my relationship with Him started to heal from that point on. It was hard, but I am very thankful that God spoke to me the way that He did about my pride.

My heart is much more alive having listened to Him!

God’s Voice Will Break the Rules

Even as I have been taking the time to write this article and reflect on God’s relationship with me I can see that this is true – God is willing to break all kinds of “holy”, “spiritual”, and “religious” rules so that He may have intimacy with us.

There is a story in the book of Acts that talks about this.

In chapter 19 we read about a controversy among the followers of Jesus.

Both Peter and Paul had been telling about how God wanted to be known by all people and was making Himself known among all people. However, there were others in the church that couldn’t accept this because the people who were choosing to follow Jesus were not choosing to follow the Jewish law as well.

At this point in the book of Acts there has been many examples of God acting this way. The primary argument of the others had been that these people were breaking the rules of God’s religion.

Then, after everything had been heard, James quotes this from the prophet Amos.

“After this I will return, and I will rebuild the tent of David that has fallen; I will rebuild its ruins, and I will restore it, that the rest of mankind may seek the Lord, and all the Gentiles who are called by my name, says the Lord, who makes these things known from of old.” – Acts 15: 16-18

What is King David’s fallen tent?

Well, in the story of King David, told in parts through 1st & 2nd Samuel and 1st Kings, there is a time when the ark of the covenant is lost in battle. This was a great big box covered in gold that contained the ten commandments and several other sacred things. It represented God’s presence to the children of Israel and God did express Himself from the ark. There were also a lot of rules that God had given the children of Israel concerning this ark. If these rules were broken terrible things could happen to the people breaking the rules.

However, this seemed to apply to some people and not others – and there is a strong connection among the people who broke these rules and lived.

Later during King David’s reign, we find him receiving the ark back from his enemies (they really did not want it anymore) and taking the ark back to Jerusalem. He does not follow the rules and take the ark back to the place it is supposed to go. As the ark travels David is also sacrificing cows to God every short while, another thing that only special people were allowed to do. And finally, at the end, he places the ark in a tent where it is accessible to almost anybody, sits there around it by himself, and has a group of people singing to God in front of it as often as possible— all of which are terribly against God’s rules for the ark of the covenant!

And do you know how terrible God’s punishment was?

Well, not very terrible at all; in fact, God calls King David a man after His own heart!

King David cared less about the rules concerning the ark than he did about being close to God. This is the heart attitude that God enjoys! When we do not want to be too close to God we end up with religious rules that hold us away from God!

This was the same way that Jesus acted too – He was holy, God’s presence on earth, and was very much known for hanging out with unholy people.

Jesus called many of these people to become His disciples. As these people were given the Holy Spirit, like Peter and Paul, they went out and spent their time with even more unholy people. Many of these people chose to believe what they were saying and saw the proof in their lives and chose to follow Jesus as they were. And so on and so forth…

In the end, God’s voice will be heard by everyone in the whole world!

His voice will not be heard by only special people, in special places, at special times, but God has chosen to speak in ways that allow everyone hear Him! He wants to have an intimacy with everyone!

How should we hear God’s Voice?

My wife and I were visiting a house church once and the evening’s question for the group was this, “How do you hear God’s voice?”

There wear a lot of good listeners there! Some people heard His voice the most when they were reading the Bible, others while listening to music, others while sitting at the beach or hiking through the forest.

We shouldn’t trick ourselves into thinking that God only speaks in one way, or that the way we’ve always heard God speak is the only way that everyone else should hear God speak.

God is very creative; I’ve mostly included stories from my life, so these are probably tilted towards my ways and ideas of hearing God’s voice. However, I think that there may be some common threads that you will find to be true in your life as well.

The greatest of these, I believe, will be your desire to hear God’s voice and putting in the effort and time to hear His voice. God is speaking to you and He will speak to you, but are willing to listen? Are you willing to put down the things that He says to put down? Are you willing to go through the pain of hearing His voice?

My testimony is a good example of the pain that may occur when you start hearing God’s voice, it is called conviction and it is a good pain! If you feel God’s conviction, take my advice! Repent of it, turn away from whatever God tells you to, run to Him! He is far better than anything of any worth in this world or any to come! In Him is good, true, and perfect love!

I can almost promise that if you start hearing God’s voice that this will happen. It is worth it, though, because intimacy with Him is worth everything.

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

TAK Article: Servant Leadership

TAK Article: Servant Leadership

Over the past year God has been teaching me a lot about being a servant. He has been doing this through the books I read, the relationships I am committed to, and especially when I take the time to listen and hear His voice.

Perhaps I can pass something of that along!

Servant Leadership

The first time I heard of “servant leadership” was at a team training week preparing our team of young people to lead youth groups on missions trips over the course of the summer. We were mostly familiar with each other and our two-weeks of training were broken up with teachings in the morning, workshops where we created a program for the Summer in the afternoon, followed by times to hang out and have fun in the evenings. That morning our base leader came to teach us about values, servant leadership, and conflict resolution.

He opened up his Bible and told us to turn to John 13: 3-10.

‘Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”

Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”

“No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”

Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

“Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”

Jesus answered, “Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.” For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.’ – NIV

My take away from that morning was that if I wanted to lead people then I would need to serve them too. However, it took me several more years (plus my future wife and our son) to learn the greater part of what Jesus was talking about.

Servant Leadership in Practice

What I missed that summer morning was the very nature of leadership that God desires for us. Mark 9:35 says this, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.”

At that point in time, and for several years after that, I operated out of the idea that those who were the leaders had the authority to tell others what to do. As a follower, it was my job to do exactly what my leader told me to do and I wasn’t responsible for anything more than that.

This was the point of view that I took when I listened to people talk about leadership, read stories from the Bible about leadership, and did my best to practice leadership. In many ways, this was my paradigm – the way I filtered the world around me. I could recite a lot of stories from the Bible where God and others leaders used this model, but even  when that was not the case I would have still perceived it to be true because this was the paradigm that I understood leadership from.

During my time in the Netherlands, in the spring of 2012, I started reading You see bones, I see an army, by Floyd McClung.

In that book Floyd McClung talked about leadership in a way that I had never heard before, nor would I have understood prior. It was this, to serve is to lead. Leadership does not come through training, degrees, titles, positions or power over others – it comes by being a servant to the people around you and building influence through that.

He used the same verses of the Bible that I had always read and heard, but now they made a lot more sense!

Shortly thereafter, as I remember it, I spent some time asking God about this. Is this why Jesus has influence in the world today? Is this what His kingdom is built upon?

In my heart I felt a resounding yes, the only reason that Jesus, God with us, has influence in the lives of people today is because He came to us as a servant. He didn’t use His position in heaven to force things to happen in the earth, but He gave Himself to us – He served us.

Applying Servant Leadership

Just recently I also read The Servant, by James C. Hunter.

I found that this book brought a lot of the challenges of servant leadership together and then practically worked them out.

The book follows the story of an educated businessman and several others as they learn about what it means to be a leader. In the beginning of the book almost everyone thinks that it is their job is to serve the people above them and control the people below them, but then as the book progresses they find that their ultimate goal is to serve the people that they are leading.

I highly recommend the book to anybody!

One of the principles shared in this book was that in order to lead people you needed to choose to love them through meeting their needs – not to feel warmly about them, but to actually act in their best interest. The book goes on to say that character traits we find most valuable in a leader are what you would call this sort of action oriented love.

The attributes listed were taken from 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7.

‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.’ – NIV

As stated in the book, love is: patient, kind, humble, respectful, selfless, forgiving, honest, and committed. This sort of love requires action!

Committing to Lead as a Servant

As a I write this my wife and are still in our first year and a half of marriage, we already have an eight-month old son, and we haven’t had a really solid place to live during any of that time. God has been unbelievably faithful during this time, but this has also been the time when He’s chosen to hammer out my commitment to lead like Him the most.

Towards my wife… I’ve always known that the Bible says to love her and even to lead her (which could seem like a rather intimidating task in itself), but it didn’t make sense before God really started revealing this idea of being a servant. Yes, I should love her like Christ loves the church and control her too? No, that’s not the message, God calls me to love her and lead her – to serve her, to make it possible for her to become even more of the woman God created her to become! Now, that’s something that I can be excited about!

Towards my son… well, in the months right after he was born it was really difficult to serve him with all my heart. A lot of the time my actions were driven by guilt or fear of becoming a bad father to him. Instead of this, God’s call for me is to serve my son – to build a strong relationship with him so that he may know what it is like to have a strong relationship with our Father too!

Towards others… as I am learning it, the most effective way for us to show God’s love to other people is to love them through our actions. Is that really leadership? Yes, it is leadership – if people do not see God’s love for them through you they will not follow you to Jesus.

That, as the realization of it hits my heart, is the greatest challenge of leading as a servant! Are we willing to serve others just like Jesus has served us?

The Challenge of Servant Leadership

Jesus shared a lot of stories about being a servant to those around us. He certainly went to the point of death for us and even further!

That is the last point that I will share – it is not spoken by Jesus when He was walking the earth, but after He rose from the dead and took His seat next to His Father. This is what others came to understand and applied to their lives. Perhaps you would consider it in your life too?

Philippians 2: 1-11.

‘Therefore if there is any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and mercy, fulfill my joy by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.’ – NKJV

May Christ be with you!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

TAK Article: Do we make God known?

A couple weeks ago while I was traveling through South-East Asia I had a couple opportunities to share in a few small fellowships of believers. Often times you’ll only figure this out on the day that you are going to meet with everyone, so, after a while, you pick up the habit of having something ready or preparing something after you get there.

Both of these scenarios happened to me on this trip, but God saved the day and had put something o my heart to share each time.

One of these times was Palm Sunday.

Now, I had spoke on Palm Sunday before and had at least a decent message, but nobody reminded me that it was Palm Sunday. Rather, I spoke out of what I had read during my quiet time that morning: Joshua chapters 9-10.

In these two chapters we read the interesting story of the Gibeonites. The city of Gibeon was a very large city. They heard of the children of Israel coming into the land, and what they had already done to anyone who opposed them, and were very afraid.

Instead of fighting against the children of Israel they chose to try and trick them – and it worked.

When Gibeon sent their ambassadors to Joshua they took old bread, old clothes, old wineskins, and old shoes with them to convince them that they had come from a far away land. Joshua and the other leaders of the children of Israel saw this and, never bringing the matter before God, made a treaty with them to not do them any harm. After three days Gibeon’s deceit was found out; Joshua made the Gibeonites slaves to gather wood and water for both the children of Israel and the alter of God, but he honored the treaty that they made.

Joshua asked them why they had done this and their answer is obvious, but very provoking for us too. In Joshua 9:24-25, it says this:

‘They answered Joshua, “Your servants were clearly told how the LORD your God had commanded his servant Moses to give you the whole land and to wipe out all its inhabitants from before you. So we feared for our lives because of you, and that is why we did this. We are now in your hands. Do to us whatever seems good and right to you.”’ NIV

The whole point of Gibeon’s actions was to protect themselves, remember, they were already a great city. In the next chapters we see the kings around them agreeing to fight against the children of Israel as one great army. Yet, they didn’t trust in any of this.

The Gibeonites saw that this God of the children of Israel was real, that He was serious, and that He was greater than their city.

Through their obedience and through their nearness to God the children of Israel played a part in making God known to a nation that did not know Him. Before the children of Israel even came to Gibeon the men of the city went to them (in their own way) so that they could get closer to God like the children of Israel were too.

When was the last time this happened at your church?

Not the going out to destroy the next town over part, but that other people heard of God through your obedience to Him and your nearness to Him? That those same people came to you and wanted to be followers of Jesus because of you?

This is God’s desire for us! This is how He wants to expand the kingdom of Jesus!

Chapter 9 didn’t come by itself, chapters 1-8 came before it: God has work to do in us before this can happen in us. We need to be obedient to Him, we need to draw near to Him. As we do these two things God’s fame will go before us and around us showing people who He is through our lives. Not everyone will want to be a part of it, just as every other nation in the promised land fought against Joshua, but there will be some who will.

This was Jesus’ mission too, it still is through us.

“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”  John 3:17 NIV

“Then comes the end, when he delivers the kingdom to God the Father after destroying every rule and every authority and power. For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death.”               1 Corinthians 15:24-26 ESV

Are we ready to start partnering with Jesus in this?

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom