Pioneering in a Day

It really is a privilege to work with so many people who are focused on starting new things!

My wife and I do a lot of ministering here in Idaho through the School Of Apostolic Pioneering. We bring together people who are looking to start a new works in the mission, bring together really cool people who have already pioneered new things to teach, and then pull it all together in a three-month school where everyone (students, staff, and speakers) can learn from each other.

Our next school will be this coming September, by the way.

Hopefully, by the end of three months, a team is ready to pioneer.

Though, that isn’t always the case.

The process that a person walks through in order to pioneer a new ministry is a long one. Most of it is wrapped up in preparing a person’s character. More time is spent on learning new skills that will be needed once the pioneering starts.

Once a person’s character and skills are in order you start to see healthy teams form around a vision of what God wants to do.

I am not sure how long that process is for most people, but I am certainly in the “character and skills” part of that process. It certainly isn’t a bad place to be, it is simply an honest one. This part of the process admits that I need more experience before I go further.

Gaining Experience

Once in a while gaining that experience is a lot of fun!

The other day was a good example of what I’m talking about.

It all started as I drove out early on October 31st, I was headed out to a spot in the mountains to sit down and wait for deer. It was the last day of deer hunting season and, since I was still going out, I still didn’t have a deer. It was dark and the sun hadn’t risen yet, though, as I looked out into the eastern sky I did see a very beautiful crescent moon. It was very bright and you could somehow see the rest of the moon too, though it was very faded.

For a moment time slowed and I could feel God’s stirring inside of me.

It is so difficult to describe God’s voice. Hundreds of emotions, thoughts, and memories were inside of me, though, God’s voice was much clearer than all of them, contrasting them all.

From childhood I was told October 31st was a bad day. It was Halloween, a devils holiday. It was a dark day. It was a day to have your own parties away from everything and everyone else.

That all said; I could feel that God wanted to do something on this day. It had plenty to do with prayer and it had to do with families.

More about what it would look like and the courage go through with it would only come later, but the seed had been planted. I could tell that there was something God wanted to do and He had already brought me into it. This isn’t to say that God forces people to do things, but rather that God knows where we are at, where He is taking us, and what we need to learn along the way.

God is very willing to bring us into the things that He knows we are ready for, though, the primary measure of that is our obedience. Will we do what He asks?

Today, that was a resounding (and sometimes wavering) yes.

As I drove back from a lot of thinking while I was in the mountains, without a deer, I might add, I heard a song on the radio that came at just the right time. “Fall, Goliath, Fall,” was the name of the song. If you enjoy the rock music that Christian bands sometimes make I recommend listening to it. If not, then just know that it spoke to my heart at the moment and I was encouraged.

Immediately after I got back into town I ran into another friend who was also out hunting that morning. He told me about a great spot he ran into for deer. I knew in my head that if I headed out to that same spot tonight I may get a chance to take a deer… and I knew in my heart that God had told me to do something very different with my evening.

No, I would not head out to hunt deer. I was going to be in town praying for families.

That is what obedience sounds like.

Rarely is obedience loud, showy, or troublesome, though, sometimes it may. Today it was a quiet resolution in my heart that there was something God had told me to do.

Previous Preparation

After that morning it was all a rush.

The morning’s vision had to be communicated, team members had to be given a purpose, emails sent, signs made, money spent, hot chocolate to be made and served, etc…

Step one was telling my wife about it; aside from sharing your plans, hopes, and dreams with your spouse (which is sort of in those vows and a foundation of marriage) it is very important to share your vision with others who can hold you accountable to it. I think that’s important with any idea, but even more so when you are dealing with something God gives you.

Give permission to others you trust to hold you accountable and move in the confidence that the vision is God’s and He will be faithful to see it through!

From that point on I noticed that a lot of what I was doing had been built up from previous tasks in the mission.

The basic goal was simple enough; pray for families at the parking lot of the local grocery store where everyone would be handing out candy for Halloween (which is called “trunk or treat” in Cascade). We could set up our own spot with hot chocolate and cookies, make a sign advertising free prayer, and after that see what would come of the evening.

In order for that to happen we had several things to get in order.

In, like, three hours.

The biggest need was people… given time was short I went for a walk and invited everyone I found. At the end of my walk there were two people who could help serve hot chocolate and pray. Not everyone I had expected to come was able to come. Yet, what was interesting was that, of the five people helping with the prayer stand I was the only American.

That was a benefit to us since it showed off our ministry’s diversity and made us a little more interesting.

The second biggest item on task was how to supply our stand with hot water.

Rather early on I scrapped the idea of serving fresh hot chocolate right out of our thermoses. We had enough space in those thermoses for a gallon of liquids. Serving straight hot chocolate would have been really cool, but way too time consuming. By only refilling hot water we were able to make each cup individually and only make the runs as long as it took to boil new water.

With two of us making chocolate it also gave us a happy medium of time in which we could build relationships and offer prayer.

The other bit of logistics was one of resources.

We checked our own finances to see if we could personally cover the costs of the prayer stand supplies and we could. We were also able to supply the table that we served everything on and our Jeep to get everything to the parking lot.

After all the work… ministry!

So right!

Believe it or not in the middle of a good heart to do ministry you will often get swamped by all of the extra stuff around it. The extra stuff isn’t bad, of course; it is simply there and needs to be addressed at the appropriate time and way.

Eventually all of us were over at the grocery store parking lot with all of the stuff we needed (with a couple extra runs for spoons and sign making materials). The first several kids showed up. They wanted something warm since they were waiting there before everyone got there. One of boys said that we could pray for his grades in school.

After that several other families came and took hot chocolate. Some of them said we could pray for them and others chose not to be prayed for. Most of the families wanted prayer for their families; sometimes through God’s protection or God’s provision.

One of the older men said that he would like prayer for his sanity, as he laughed. He said that he was taking care of his three grandsons on his own. We prayed for him right there while we gave them all hot chocolate and cookies. We thanked God for giving his grandsons someone to look up to and prayed that he would have both the sanity and strength to bring them up well.

It was a great night of ministry!

In Conclusion

In the SOAP these are some of the questions that we try to encourage when students are working through their pioneering projects.

-What is the vision that God has given you?

-How will you communicate the vision to other interested and available people?

-What needs to be done logistically for the vision to be accomplished?

-What will the results be when the ministry is finished?

At times we have people and teams who are very ready to start pioneering, sometimes we have people who have some ways to go before they get to start pioneering (like me). In any case we hope that we can bring our students closer to completing the goal that God has given them.

For the last several years I have been on the learning end of many experiences like these. As I’ve walked through them God has continually brought me closer to seeing the vision that He’s put on my heart become a reality.

Though, this is what it could look like in a day.

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

Weekly Update: November 21st, 2012

Weekly Update: Wednesday 10/21/2012

 

Happy Thanksgiving!

We pray that God will bless all of you and show you all the things that He has done for you this year!

Our time in the Netherlands is going well.

We have an understanding of how the next couple months will look for us and God is providing for all of our needs to accomplish them. Within the next months we are hoping to see the Enschede Prayer Team continue, we are having a missions fair at our home church here in Enschede, and I will be off to Asia from December to February.

We are looking forward to a very busy and exciting time!

Though, I don’t want to miss what has been happening in the last month since I last updated our weekly update… I see the irony.

My wife is the one heading up the missions fair for our church’s  missionary members, which means she is very busy emailing, writing, and visiting people. She is also sorting things out for the immigrations sale that we will have at the same time.

While my wife works at this, our son likes getting into bookshelves and plants, and cabinets that he shouldn’t – of which there are plenty of each.

I’m reading through my fourth book dealing with early church history and trying to understand the implications it has on us today. It is really important for me to keep learning and sharing what I learn with others. Writing things down here on the blog is one way, talking about them with my father-in-law over coffee several times a day is another that I particularly enjoy.

So, with that, my mind is often caught up in several different places at the same time. What happened at this time, who said what when, Jay Edward trying to pull down a great big potted plant  or playing with his grandpa’s books now, etc.

In all this I am preparing to travel to Asia; I have the opportunity to teach at a discipleship training school, help a couple of outreach teams, and learning/showing how to make water filters out of clay pots, sand, gravel, and water.

Out of those three, doing the research and showing people how to filter water will have the most impact on my time there.

It is a project that comes out of our prayers for Asia.

During my first trip to Asia we learned how terrible the water there can be. As we prayed about what to do we felt that God wanted us to bring water filters, but we never found a way how. Since then, our outreach have been focused on helping people learn about basic hygiene and preventable sicknesses.

Yet, we’ve still had the problem that most people do not have access to clean water.

Earlier  this year I learned of a water filter that may fit our unique demands. On this trip I’ll research them more, see if I get sick when I drink the water, and do my best to share them with my other friends who will be able to share the water filters with even more people.

Be praying for my time away from family, success in the water filter project, and safe travels!

Thanks for partnering with our family!

 

Other Updates:

– We had an update this past week that the National Visa Center, in the US, has all of our documents again. Please pray that the process will go smoothly from here!

– In order to use my time well in the Netherlands, I’ve begun pioneering a prayer team for the various ministries in Enschede. This project is going well and I’ve sent invitations to other ministries to see if more will join the prayer team.

 

Scripture:

The last time I wrote here I had just finished Isaiah and was in Jeremiah, now I’m finished with Jeremiah and am in Ezekiel.

The two books are very similar; it seems that Ezekiel is written even more like a journal than Jeremiah. Ezekiel writes about the amazing visions and experiences he has with God and the strange and very persistent ways that God has him speak to the people who have been taken captive by the Babylonians. They speak at the same time, to the same group of people, about most of the same things, but in completely different places.

Jeremiah speaks from Jerusalem and later from Egypt, Ezekiel speaks from Babylon after being taken there as a captive himself.

You need a really good imagination to see the things that Ezekiel writes about. He writes about God’s throne sitting on towering angels, being spiritually taken to Jerusalem and digging through walls, and hearing God tell him to do dig a hole through his own house’s wall and act like he’s going into exile – just so people will ask and give God an opportunity to speak to them!

It’s an interesting and challenging read!

 

Praise & Prayer Report:

– Praise God for our time in the Netherlands!

– Please continue praying for my wife’s visa application!

– Please pray for our family’s finances and continued support!

– Please pray that our family would receive everything God has for us during these months together in the Netherlands and after we are apart!

 

Thanks for all your prayers!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

Weekly Update: October 30th, 2012

Weekly Update: Tuesday 10/30/2012

Hello everyone,

It’s winter time in the Netherlands!

Well, not winter time, yet, as in the season, but rather winter time as the time that they set all the clocks an hour backwards. We are all still getting used to that…

We are glad to say that we are using the time that we do have quite well! My wife and I are helping my father-in-law with his garden and home, building relationships with our friends, and getting our visa process sorted out. We are thankful for the time to rest, give our son lots of attention, and for being able to do plenty of studying in my father-in-law’s study.

We are not staying here indefinitely, of course, but I am glad to be with our family before heading out of the Netherlands again while we wait for our visa process to finish.

I will need to leave for some amount of time, depending on when our interview is due with the US embassy in Amsterdam, but we are still searching out the options God has for us. Please be praying for our family to receive everything that God has for us!

Thanks for partnering with our family!

 

Other Updates:

– We had a small delay in our visa process last week; we needed a few more signed papers, get a couple new documents, and send it all to our lawyer. Thanks to everyone who helped and thanks to our lawyer who made it a very quick procedure!

– In order to use my time well in the Netherlands, I’ve begun pioneering a prayer team for the various ministries in Enschede. There’s just a couple of us so far, but we get together every month to talk and pray about the various ministry opportunities we’re finding in Enschede. We are also able to show support for each other by praying for each other throughout the week.

My wife and I were able to meet the leader of similar organization today, XiE (Christ in Enschede).

It was an encouraging visit and we are praying that some fruit will come out of it! They will mention us in their meeting the Thursday.

 

Scripture:

Well, by now I’m out of Isaiah and into the book of Jeremiah!

The two books have a lot of similar content, but they are very different in the way that they are written.

Isaiah can feel like a collection of prophecies over various nations, as well as, Israel and Judah, the two kingdom’s of the Israelites. Jeremiah, on the other hand, feels a lot more like a journal of what God told him to say, what to do, and how the people responded to it.

The book of Jeremiah feels more emotional too; it includes many of his prayers and is known for the fact that God tells Jeremiah in the very beginning that nobody will listen to him. It is probably one of the most readable books of the Bible too.

It can be comforting for me to know that even though there are times when our lives are difficult, though not as much as Jeremiah’s in most cases, God has already been through this sort of stuff with others who have followed Him. Seeing Jeremiah’s struggles to keep going help me have the courage to keep going when I feel struggles coming too.

I hope that you find this encouraging!

 

Praise & Prayer Report:

– Praise God for our time in the Netherlands!

– Please continue praying for my wife’s visa application!

– Please pray for our family’s finances and continued support!

– Please pray that our family would receive everything God has for us during these months together in the Netherlands!

 

Thanks for all your prayers!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

TAK Article: Servant Leadership

TAK Article: Servant Leadership

Over the past year God has been teaching me a lot about being a servant. He has been doing this through the books I read, the relationships I am committed to, and especially when I take the time to listen and hear His voice.

Perhaps I can pass something of that along!

Servant Leadership

The first time I heard of “servant leadership” was at a team training week preparing our team of young people to lead youth groups on missions trips over the course of the summer. We were mostly familiar with each other and our two-weeks of training were broken up with teachings in the morning, workshops where we created a program for the Summer in the afternoon, followed by times to hang out and have fun in the evenings. That morning our base leader came to teach us about values, servant leadership, and conflict resolution.

He opened up his Bible and told us to turn to John 13: 3-10.

‘Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”

Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”

“No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”

Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

“Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”

Jesus answered, “Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.” For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.’ – NIV

My take away from that morning was that if I wanted to lead people then I would need to serve them too. However, it took me several more years (plus my future wife and our son) to learn the greater part of what Jesus was talking about.

Servant Leadership in Practice

What I missed that summer morning was the very nature of leadership that God desires for us. Mark 9:35 says this, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.”

At that point in time, and for several years after that, I operated out of the idea that those who were the leaders had the authority to tell others what to do. As a follower, it was my job to do exactly what my leader told me to do and I wasn’t responsible for anything more than that.

This was the point of view that I took when I listened to people talk about leadership, read stories from the Bible about leadership, and did my best to practice leadership. In many ways, this was my paradigm – the way I filtered the world around me. I could recite a lot of stories from the Bible where God and others leaders used this model, but even  when that was not the case I would have still perceived it to be true because this was the paradigm that I understood leadership from.

During my time in the Netherlands, in the spring of 2012, I started reading You see bones, I see an army, by Floyd McClung.

In that book Floyd McClung talked about leadership in a way that I had never heard before, nor would I have understood prior. It was this, to serve is to lead. Leadership does not come through training, degrees, titles, positions or power over others – it comes by being a servant to the people around you and building influence through that.

He used the same verses of the Bible that I had always read and heard, but now they made a lot more sense!

Shortly thereafter, as I remember it, I spent some time asking God about this. Is this why Jesus has influence in the world today? Is this what His kingdom is built upon?

In my heart I felt a resounding yes, the only reason that Jesus, God with us, has influence in the lives of people today is because He came to us as a servant. He didn’t use His position in heaven to force things to happen in the earth, but He gave Himself to us – He served us.

Applying Servant Leadership

Just recently I also read The Servant, by James C. Hunter.

I found that this book brought a lot of the challenges of servant leadership together and then practically worked them out.

The book follows the story of an educated businessman and several others as they learn about what it means to be a leader. In the beginning of the book almost everyone thinks that it is their job is to serve the people above them and control the people below them, but then as the book progresses they find that their ultimate goal is to serve the people that they are leading.

I highly recommend the book to anybody!

One of the principles shared in this book was that in order to lead people you needed to choose to love them through meeting their needs – not to feel warmly about them, but to actually act in their best interest. The book goes on to say that character traits we find most valuable in a leader are what you would call this sort of action oriented love.

The attributes listed were taken from 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7.

‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.’ – NIV

As stated in the book, love is: patient, kind, humble, respectful, selfless, forgiving, honest, and committed. This sort of love requires action!

Committing to Lead as a Servant

As a I write this my wife and are still in our first year and a half of marriage, we already have an eight-month old son, and we haven’t had a really solid place to live during any of that time. God has been unbelievably faithful during this time, but this has also been the time when He’s chosen to hammer out my commitment to lead like Him the most.

Towards my wife… I’ve always known that the Bible says to love her and even to lead her (which could seem like a rather intimidating task in itself), but it didn’t make sense before God really started revealing this idea of being a servant. Yes, I should love her like Christ loves the church and control her too? No, that’s not the message, God calls me to love her and lead her – to serve her, to make it possible for her to become even more of the woman God created her to become! Now, that’s something that I can be excited about!

Towards my son… well, in the months right after he was born it was really difficult to serve him with all my heart. A lot of the time my actions were driven by guilt or fear of becoming a bad father to him. Instead of this, God’s call for me is to serve my son – to build a strong relationship with him so that he may know what it is like to have a strong relationship with our Father too!

Towards others… as I am learning it, the most effective way for us to show God’s love to other people is to love them through our actions. Is that really leadership? Yes, it is leadership – if people do not see God’s love for them through you they will not follow you to Jesus.

That, as the realization of it hits my heart, is the greatest challenge of leading as a servant! Are we willing to serve others just like Jesus has served us?

The Challenge of Servant Leadership

Jesus shared a lot of stories about being a servant to those around us. He certainly went to the point of death for us and even further!

That is the last point that I will share – it is not spoken by Jesus when He was walking the earth, but after He rose from the dead and took His seat next to His Father. This is what others came to understand and applied to their lives. Perhaps you would consider it in your life too?

Philippians 2: 1-11.

‘Therefore if there is any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and mercy, fulfill my joy by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.’ – NKJV

May Christ be with you!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom

Seeking Asylum

Hello from the Netherlands,

Last Wednesday, the 9th of November, my wife and I took a bike ride. This isn’t an uncommon thing to do in the Netherlands, but for me this was my longest ride yet. We traveled 22 Kilometers, just over 13 miles, to visit the city of Schalkhaar, near Deventer. We had heard of an asylum seeking center there and we wanted to see what it was like. Perhaps, even to see what ministry opportunities could come of the place.

It started out quite cold for both of us, but my wife gladly took my coat (and took back her mittens) as she was still cold and I was already sweating. There seem to be very nice routs that you can take all through the Netherlands that are intended just for bikes and each that I have seen are very beautiful. We passed through several of these areas, one of them being a walking park right through a wood. Wherever we went we had a nicely paved road ahead of us. There were a couple of times that we weren’t quite sure about which way to go or where we were at, but in the end we made it to the asylum seeking center.

The Netherlands has a lot of people who come here to seek out refuge; many of these people flee from their own governments (as political refugees), wars that threaten their homes, and from economic disaster (such as famines). I do not know of the equivalent in the US. I have met refugees from Myanmar, Bhutan, Iraq, and Eritrea, but all of them were accepted as refugees. As I listen to people and the news stations in the Netherlands the people here seem to be in stuck in between of making it to safety and being allowed to stay as a refugee. 

As we rode up to the complex we saw that the whole place was surrounded by fences, topped with barbed wire. At the front there was a large metal gate. Just beyond this was a parking place before an unfriendly looking reception area. It looked like a loosely guarded prison, but more to keep people out than in. As we rode in we noticed a sign that said the gates remained closed after 9pm.

We continued to the reception, but we were a little lost for what to do. In short, we were not allowed to enter. Menke has been inside other centers before, but always with somebody else more official.

So, with that, we remained in the center’s parking lot and took a break before riding back home. We took some of the drink we brought with us, and ate a good portion of our lunch; bread with young cheese for Menke, bread with peanut butter and chocolate sprinkles for me. As we ate many people came in and out of the gates. Most of the people looked like that had come from Africa, others were of lighter skin, though, and we only learned later that they may have come from somewhere near Russia. Each person who saw us smiled and greeted us with a, ‘Hello’; they seemed more friendly than most other people who have seen us idly eating our bread in the Netherlands.

Afterwards we prayed; it was nothing earth shattering, but it gave us hope for the place and some tasks to do.

For one, God reminded us that after seeing this place it would be easier for us to pray for it. We had known of the place for some time, but now that we had gone there we would be able to remember the people who we saw and pray for them.

Secondly, we could tell others what we had seen. Though we couldn’t go into the center lots of people came out. Some of those people came out laughing, walking with their kids, talking to their friends, speaking different languages, etc; they were normal people living there lives as normally as they could. Even though it seems that we cannot go inside to share the gospel and minister to people we can be outside to meet them. Then, if we can meet people, we can share the love of Christ with them.

So, I think that is what we will tell people when we talk about the asylum seeking centers here in the Netherlands. That the people there are beautiful and we can help them to hear the gospel while they are here; furthermore, we can show them the love of Christ when we meet them outside of their walls.

We were a bit sad that we couldn’t do more ourselves, nor do we see an opportunity to do more hands on work in Schalkhaar, but we will be praying for God to rise up others to this need. I think that God has many good things in store for the people staying there at the asylum seeking center.

And so, having our day concluded, we cycled back home. The ride went much faster than the first time, but we also stopped along the way for a bite to eat. I had Naan and my wife had tomato soup, it was very well-flavored with Rosemary.

Oh yeah, my wife is also 32 weeks pregnant; not a bad ride for her at all!

May this find you well!

In Christ,
The Abiding Kingdom